Well, today my mother told me some very shocking news. She spent and hour and a half last night talking to Effies sister Ruth on the phone. Lets just say it was a conversation that held a lot of meaning and surprises that came to life. I She revealed some very shocking things, concerns concerning Effies daughter Linda. Please bare with me as i explain, for its really hard to think about.
I never really knew linda, she lived in the city and was hardly ever around, that i can remember anyways. She is the oldest of effies four children that are still alive, two had already passed on. So therefore, when effie got sick, in the hospital and everything, Linda took charge. Charge of everything, which we thought was natural. She told us that the boys, the other three siblings, didnt really want to step up, didnt wanna face the truth, which we could see, so we thought. Well, from day one of effies hospital stay linda always just really blew everyone off, saying shes about the same really everytime anyone would ask how effie was. But we just thought she was telling the truth....
well, as mom was telling me the conversation last night, that was probably not the truth at all, rather something linda said just to get everyone to back off and leave her alone, to deal with her mother on her own.
According to ruth, which is effies loving sister who mom trusts with her whole heart Linda may have been the cause to effies death....
I nearly fainted hearing this... what?? how in the world could this daughter that was effies pride and joy be the cause of her death!? well, mom went on the explain.
Linda had told everyone that she had retired from a bank where she worked for over twenty years, which ruth now tells mom that she was fired not quit. PLus, she has a gambling problem, which explains. Effie was clearly ashamed because she had never told mom. So long story short, ruth believes when effie had the heart surgery and was doing good in the hospital, that linda moved her to the rehab place, ON HER OWN and thats when she turned for the worst. Doctors did not advise her to be moved. Linda did it, why!!?? who knows.... effie had two life insurance policies. Effie was getting better in the hospital and as soon as she was put in the other place her body started shutting down. She was giving up, is what linda told us. NO!!!!! Linda gave up on her!!!! Maybe she wanted the money,? why else would you move her!!!! it blows my mind. I cant imagine letting my mother die so i could have her money!!!! And, all the money effie left behind, linda kept, not sharing any with her brothers. i cant believe it.... effie might still be here today if linda had not moved her. You could tell seeing her in that place that she was unhappy, the look of defeat! now i can understand why! Her heart had healed phyisically but her daughter broke it afterwards..... effie may still be with us if her daughter hadnt been selfish, put on a big front! it breaks my heart. i know shes in a better place, and it was her time or god wouldnt have taken her, but still... why would her own daughter do it??? how can she do it?? now, she wont even talk to her aunt, Ruth, and hasnt gave anyone in her family a dime.... how sad.....
i must go for now had to vent a little.... just dont understand what some people will do.
